Family Friends & Farm

"Do one thing every day that scares you."

"Do one thing every day that scares you."

Many folks I know are happy that 2016 is slipping away and a new year is here! With the changing of the calendar comes new chapters, challenges, and fresh starts.

Bows, Boughs, Berries, and Balsam Hill™

Bows, Boughs, Berries, and Balsam Hill™

Enter to win this very same Christmas tree and decorations I personally chose for my studio at the Happy Holly Days with Delilah & Balsam Hill Sweepstakes! Come on in and take a better look!

Building Bridges to a Loving Tomorrow

Building Bridges to a Loving Tomorrow

So the election has finally coming to an end. The commercials will disappear and the daily rhetoric will become less.... but the divisive energy that has adversely affected us all could very well continue to steal your serenity. Don't let it!

Faith, Family and The Rest | A Visit with Masterbuilt McLemore's

Faith, Family and The Rest | A Visit with Masterbuilt McLemore's

Come hang out with John McLemore - Mr. Masterbuilt - and me as he smokes and fries up some food that's DADGUM Good, and we spend time laughing and eating together.

Make Time | Share Your Story

Make Time | Share Your Story

I often encourage people to make more time to do the things they love to do. In this crazy busy world, it’s not easy to find time to feed your soul amid everything else you must get done.

Put Heart Into Your Home

Put Heart Into Your Home

This week, focus on the home – even if it’s just a temporary residence – and dream up a little corner you can redesign or a patio you can bring to life with plants, or a bookshelf you can dust off to collect books and trinkets.

Perfect Painting Partners | The Home Depot

Painting a room in your home brings a new life to that space; bedroom, living room, kitchen or any other area  that seems to be suffering from the doldrums.

Right now, while the air is warm and the windows can be flung open wide in appreciation of vistas and ventilation, is perfect for painting projects! 

Find both inspiration and the exact color your want at The Home Depot! 

The Paint Department at The Home Depot is a smorgasbord of color! Bright and vibrant, demur and dazzling, light and airy... there is no limit to what they have to offer.

It seems I've ALWAYS got a few paint projects of my own going on, and I love being able to count on The Home Depot whenever I come running in breathless with excitement over what's in the works!

The people behind the counter are sooooo helpful! They answer my questions, provide useful information and tips, and get me everything I need to create the space I'm picturing in my minds eye.  They'll do the same for you!

The people behind the counter are sooooo helpful! They answer my questions, provide useful information and tips, and get me everything I need to create the space I'm picturing in my minds eye.  They'll do the same for you!

Of course, you know me well enough to know that before I head out, I've learned about the paint pros significant others, their parents, babies, what their weekend plans are... Because they are real and genuine people.  

People who are my perfect painting partners and yours!

Hooray for Dads!

Hooray for Dads!

Happy Father's Day to all the dads on my reader list, and all those who are not. To all those who gave life and love, and bestowed gifts and values upon their children.

Most of you have heard me talk about my own father. He was a complicated and conflicted man. We had a complicated and conflicted relationship. I am ever-grateful to him for shaping me, consciously or unconsciously, into the person I am today.
I remember him with love.

Can I Come Garden With YOU?

Can I Come Garden With YOU?

Can I come garden with you???  The fabulous folks at The Home Depot are giving me an opportunity to do just that!  

I love to share my love of gardening. So I asked my Home Depot friends to help me out and they have!  I get to visit YOUR home, help plan YOUR garden, shop with YOU at The Home Depot and then work next to YOU planting and installing!

Mother's Love: A growth supplement

Mother's Love: A growth supplement

I love to garden!

No matter where I've lived, the size of my yard (or if I've even had a yard,) I've planted something.

Today I'm fortunate to live on acreage, and I plant a LOT of somethings.  Greens, grapes, fruits, veggies, and flowers, flowers, flowers.

Ahhhhhhhctober!

Cool misty mornings, red-ripe apples, falling-leaves, gushing rivers, restful critters, and kids firmly tucked into the school routine. Pickling spices, pressure canners, and rows of gleaming jars full of fruits and veggies on the counter. Fresh straw in the stalls, on the pea patch, and stacked on the porch as the perfect perch for Jack-O-Lanterns, pots of colorful mums, and a bushels of bumpy gourds. This is Ahhhhhctober to me, today, on my farm.

Once upon a time, it was slightly different. The mornings were drippy and the fog sometimes so thick, I couldn’t see more than a foot in front of me as I walked the familiar path to school. There were more coniferous trees than deciduous; not so many falling leaves as falling cones and needles. Critters would have been a rabbit, chinchilla, goldfish or irritable parakeet; the only type of pets my parents allowed in our house once we had moved into town.  Jack-O-Lanterns to be sure, but they were carved the night-before and molding by the day-after.  Gourds from my grandparents garden, yes, but no fancy displays. This was life in a small town on the Oregon Coast, which was already rain soaked and sodden by this time.

But we didn’t care; because it was also Birthday Month. Four of our six family members had opal-stone birthdays.  It was a month for celebration.  And cake. Lots of cake. Each person was celebrated on their own special day with their favorite. A box cake for Mom, made “lovingly” by her kids. Gingerbread for older brother, Matt. Chocolate with boiled fudge frosting for Dad, and yellow cake with chocolate icing for baby, Timbo. And then there was the big weekend gathering that included the grandparents bringing more sweets, treats, and gifts – for all! They felt so bad that my sis and I were left out of the wrapper-tearing party; they always included something for us.  That’s what grandparents do. It was a good month.

I think of this as the month of “settling.” We have stopped mourning the summer sun, gone before we were ready. The garden has slowed to a crawl from its non-stop over-productions.  Animals have had their babies and have calmed and quieted.  We wake and sleep to the rhythms of a now familiar routine that will take us into the winter months and beyond. There are so many differences and similarities between my life then and now. More animals, more kids, more work, but at the heart of each; family. 

Make yourself a soothing cup of tea, take a little trip in your mind back to the things you loved about this time as a child, then forward to what it means to you now.  Inhale deeply and exhale slowly. Ahhhhhhctober.

 

You CAN do it!

One of the things I love most about gardening isn’t gardening at all, it’s eating! There’s nothing better than a fresh tomato, sliced cucumber, tender-crisp floret of broccoli…  Well, maybe there is. Maybe a dilly bean with a slice of cheese, pickled beets on a winter salad, applesauce with my pork chop, spaghetti sauce full of herbs and spices… I’m talking about all the types of food I can or preserve in late summer/early fall, that I, friends, and family get to enjoy all year through; far beyond bright summer days and the end of the growing season.

Canning and preserving was a way of life for most of our grandparents, when our country was mostly agrarian, people lived rurally, and you couldn’t run to the grocery to pick up a tomato, just flown in from Chile’, any day of the year.  The tradition continued in my home because my grandparents left a 500 acre farm in Arkansas when many were doing the same in the mid-fifties. They came to the West Coast lured by the lucrative timber business, but couldn’t sever themselves completely from the lifestyle that had supported their families for generations. They always had a big garden and raised livestock. So, this time of year both my grandmothers kitchen and my mothers were a hive of activity “putting up” the various fruits and vegetables grown over the summer.  Kids were put into production chopping, grinding relishes, smashing fruits and hanging corn to dry.  Now that I have realized my life-long dream of a place to farm and my crops are large enough to do more with than have a few great dinners, I’ve been going back to my roots and relearning the skills that were instilled in me all those years ago.  And I’m having a blast doing it! 

I’ve talked about my canning on the air and on social media, and have had many, many requests for more information.  I’m going to tell you just enough to hopefully get you interested in doing more research on your own and trying it for yourselves!

There are two methods of canning; hot water bath and pressure.  The hot water method is used for high-acid food. It’s great for pickles, jellies and jams.  The pressure canning method is used for low-acid foods.  This method brings the temperature of the food up much higher than boiling water can and is necessary to prevent the growth of botulism, which, put bluntly, can kill you.  So can driving a car, going swimming, or crossing a road, which most of us do fairly regularly without panic. Don’t be frightened of home canning, but do be cautious. Get the right equipment and follow directions TO THE LETTER.  Think of it as “looking both ways” before you step into the crosswalk.  If you’re new to canning, start out with pickles and jams please, then once you get the basics down move on to pressure canning for your meats and produce like green beans and corn that are not in pickling brines.

I’d recommend jam for your very first canning experience.  You can buy grapes, berries, or other fruits from farmers markets or produce stands, and it doesn’t take much.  You will need a large pot, small (1 or 1/2 pint) canning jars (often found in your supermarket cooking aisle this time of year) lids, seals, and a box of fruit pectin (SureJell is the brand I often use.)  Buy the pectin first and read the directions, picking up any necessary supplies.  Most recipes call for the fruit, chopped or as the recipe instructs, sugar (lots of sugar!) and pectin.  The fruit mixture is usually cooked with the sugar and pectin and poured into sterilized jars. Sterilized seals and rings are used to close the jar and they are then place into the ‘hot water bath.’  The jars sit in boiling water for a specified amount of time bringing the jam and jar up to the same temperature.  After they are removed, the cooling air in the jar compresses, sealing the contents. Viola! Jam!

Homemade jam is delicious! Just the knowledge that you made it yourself makes it taste ten thousand times better than anything you can pick up in the grocery store!  Forget the toast – you want to eat this on top of ice cream, in milkshakes, a dab on a pork chop or with a sharp cheese – Ummm Ummm good!

So if you’ve ever been curious about canning – get out there and DO IT! Pick up one of the many guides put out by Kerr or Ball (standard canning supply providers) and get to jammin’! Your county extension office is also a good source for information as is your local library or, where else, the internet!

I want to know of your successes – and also if something doesn’t work right.  Many times I’ve made jam or jelly that “doesn’t  set”, but ya know what? It makes excellent syrup for pancakes and waffles!

CAN you do it? Yes, you CAN!!!